You so desperately want to feel more joy and less stress?
So much is always going on in your life. You are so wanting solutions for everything going on.
You are someone who wants the best for everyone.
”You are someone who gives there all, always.”
But why are things keep on happening in your life? Why are you still feeling so stressed out, while you doing everything for it to feel better all the time?
The brain is releasing all kind of hormones all the time. These are the hormones of cortisol and adrenaline that are giving you energy, focus and also causing stress in the body.
Then there are the happy hormones, like oxytocine, dopamine, endorfines and serotonine. The brain has all kind of purposes.
”There are 3 systems in the brain, that are causing different results in your life!”
The 3 systems in your body/brain are :
1 The ‘’Go go go system or superdrive system, the overdrive system’’
2 The ‘’Survival system, fight flight or freeze system’’
3 The ‘’Calm and content system’’
Knowing what system is driving you in what moment is important to know why certain things are happening in your life and why you react in a certain way.
The survivalsystem:
When you are going through many life-events all together, your body comes in ‘’the survivalsystem.’’ There is too much happening, so the body gets overwhelmed. It goes into panicmode and agressionmode. You feel that everything is too much. You are so overwhelmed. You can cry very fast and a lot or you are very fast agitated and even want to hit someone or something. Normally thats not you at all, but now every extra impulse, every extra too loud noise or an email that triggers you. It is such an override, that it makes you feel so angry, that you feel out of control. In anger or in crying. Extreme emotional and overly tired.
This will cause you to go into fight, or it caused you to go into flight. You want to run away from all of your problems. Run away into a holidayvacation or literally into suicide, if it takes too long and you don’t see any answers for your problems anymore.
Then there is also the freeze reaction. It can be, that you are so overwhelmed and so overstressed and burned-out for such a long period. That your body literally can’t handle anything anymore. Too much survival, then it goes into a freeze. You can literally not move your body anymore. It doesn’t do anything anymore for you.
The overdrive system:
The ‘Go go go overdrive system’’ can go together with the survivalsystem. Both these systems can cause burn-outs.
This overdrive system mostly starts with being driven, energetical and focussed. When it becomes a problem, is when you are always in this system. You take no breaks and go go go. You are a hardworking businesswoman and or man and go from accomplishment to accomplishment. You are a perfectionist and ‘’have no time to take breaks’’. There is always so much to do.
You go from one task into another. You have many to do lists and love the feeling of crossing one when its done and go immediatly to the next. The fullfillment is so short. There are no breaks or celebrations. It is going from one thing to another, without stops. You love to accomplish a task. You love having results. You are constantly focussed on the next thing. You are a perfectionist and also want to be the best and the best results. You ask so much from yourself. Everything can always be and do better. You have so much responsibility and carry a lot of weight on your shoulders. It feels never accomplished. Nothing is never finished. There is always more and even more to do.
This system is go go go and do do do. Always more to do.
When you stay to long in this superdrive system, eventually, and mostly too late it goes over in the survivalsystem, into fight, flight and freeze. You are very fast frustrated, agitated, agressive and emotional. Overwhelmed. Want to run away from your problems. Its all too much. Or even become suicidal and thinks that that is the only solution and that the world is better off without you.
Or your whole body stops at one day and you can’t move your body anymore and the only solution is to take rest and lay in the bed for months mostly, till your body can handle step by step more and more.
”There is a solution to balance these systems so that you will feel much better!”
The solution to both of these systems, ‘’the survivalsystem’’ and ‘’the overdrivesystem’’ is:
Going into ‘’The calm and content system’’:
When your body is in this state, you feel calm, peaceful, relaxed, content, fulfilled and present in the body.
This system is the antidote for the other systems.
When you are always in a override mode or in a survivalmode, life becomes very hard and difficult and eventually it has a huge effect on the physical body and overall health and on the mental health and emotional health.
It is the opposite of feeling happy and content and healthy in your life.
‘’The survivalsystem’’ and ‘’the overdrivesystem’’ are activated by the body itself, but ‘’the calm and content system’’ is not.
You have to activate this system by yourself to balance the other systems. And this will work out in overall health on all levels. On the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual/energetical level of your body. Your overall health will improve extremely. You will avoid PTSD and Burn-out and many other problems, because eventually it has an effect on all your relationships and moneyflow and so much more. Take care of yourself now and make these important changes.
How can you activate this magical and powerful ‘’calm and content system’’?
- Eat healthy, give your unique body what it needs.
- Take time to mindfully and slowly eat and not eat to fast while you keep on working or listening to something or while driving. Take time to eat and eat very slowly without distractions in that moment. Tast it all. Be conscious of what you eat and how it tastes. Chew extra, so that your brain gets the signal that you have eaten. You are very present with your food and present with your body in that moment.
- Be Present in the present moment. Being present in the moment is where the magic happens. It is also where all transformation happens, because we have only the now. In the present moment is the only way, where we can make the longlasting changes, because the past is gone and the future is not yet here. Everything always happens in the present moment, so Be Present in the Present moment, in the Now. There is where the only true power is. When you are not present in the moment and always in your thinking head thinking of the future of rethinking of the past, you are always living in the past of future and you will miss all the magic of life. And also where all the energy is. When you are present in the present moment, you connect with the life-energy, that will help you fully with everything.
- Move your body. Your body is not meant to sit on a chair in the office for a computer and inside between four walls. Go outside and move your body. And if you can, enjoy nature, thats even better. And nature helps you heal and helps you to become present in the moment. It will happen by itself when you are surrounded by nature. That is the power of nature.
- You can also do exercises inside, in breaks between work, but also go outside. Balance inside with outside.
- Balance is very important. Balance movement and being still. Outside and inside. City with nature. Noices with silence. Screens with eyes closed. Seriously working with having fun. Working with socializing with friends. Work with having breaks, And so on. Balance is very important.
- Do breathing exercises. Breathing is living. Breathing is life. Without breath there is no life. And so we should focus on breathing so much more, as it is so important in life. Different exercises are very powerful and effective. 4-4-4, AUM, aa-oe-mm, Breath Hold Breathing and more. (See on the website for these products and extra info about it.)
- Focussing on Presence in the center of your heart. Centering and living from your Heart is so powerful.
- Have the same Rithm in sleeping every day and night.
- Listen to positive trances and hypnose. (see on the website for these products.)
- Listen to positive audios on 528 hz, that calm you down. (see on the website for these products).
- Do fun things with friends and or family.
- By releasing happy hormones, the stresshormones are balanced. (Happy hormones like; oxytocine, serotonine, dopamine and endorfine.) Oxytocine is a happy hormone that is released by cuddling, touching, eye gazing). Some of the happy hormones are released by eating or drinking pure cacao and this is also heartopening.
- And there are so much more tools and ways to release those happy hormones. Exercising is also a good one.
For more info or transformationstools or ways to open your heart, balance and open your ‘’Calm and contentsystem’’, see on the website for all the courses, audios and tools or book your live session, thats all included with Jamie.
Enjoy your fantastic calming and exciting day! I truly wish you all the best!
Much Love,
Jamie
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